 |
Forum na temat Dody Doroty Rabczewskiej i Virgin www.dodam.kw.pl
|
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
weifpfnab
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 19 Cze 2013
Posty: 753
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 8:45, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Author',[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];s Bio:
People need to hear the same message over & over again before they really hear it. Your job is to consistently share that message until they do hear it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
What are the hidden truths that keep you struggling?
1.) A lack of continuity
2.) A lack of congruency
3.) A lack of consistency
Congruency is where all the pieces of your business build upon each other. It keeps you focused & aligned with your original purpose. Developing programs & products with a sense of congruency help you to build off one to build another. This way you always have something to follow up with, you are cutting way down on the learning curve, and setting yourself up as an expert in your chosen area.
By Kathy Jo Slusher-Haas
See all Articles by Kathy Jo Slusher-HaasSee Kathy Jo Slusher-Haas's Expert PageGet Updates on Business Coach and Business CoachingGet Updates on Kathy Jo Slusher-Haas Average: 3,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].2 Your rating: None Average: 3.2 (5 votes) Tweet
Well, there is a problem. None of these are congruent.
But, if you wish to succeed, in whatever way that means to you, you must consistently face that struggle.
Aside from having that predictable, reliable monthly income, continuity programs extend your reach by offering more affordable forms of coaching allowing you to help people who may never be able to work 1 on 1 with you.
Lack of Continuity: Having a steady stream of income is an absolute must for a business. But that's not easy to get if all you specialize in is 1 on 1 coaching. Continuity creates a reliable stream of income through products, membership sites, and ongoing program.
Lack of Congruency: Come on, admit it. We've all been there. You get a phone call from an organization looking for someone to give a free presentation on being organized. "Sure, I can do that" you say. You get another person asking if you work with parenting skills, "Sure, I can help anyone." Yet another asking about career choices? "Yup."
According to Ghandi there are 3 parts to any goal: the beginning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the struggle, and the victory. Most people don't make it past the struggle.
I can't tell you how much time, money and energy I wasted when I first started my coaching business. Once I understood these 3 hidden truths,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I became focused and can truly call myself an expert in my area and a success.
Lack of Consistency: This is perhaps the most important one. It can literally make or break your business,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. We live in a "got to have it now" world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. So if we don't see immediate results we hop over to the next idea. This continued hopping means we are doing nothing but starting.
You hear the stories about coaches earning 6-figure. You have the passion; you are an amazing coach deeply committed to the success of your clients,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; you are completely dedicated to making your business work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. But ...you are still struggling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Stop struggling in your business. Share your expertise with the world confidently knowing you are making a difference. And be as successful as you help your clients be. By taking these 3 pieces and matching that with your dedication, commitment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], & passion you will be well on your way to creating that successful business of your dreams.
Don't worry,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there is hope. What would it be worth to you to discover these 3 hidden truths and take the steps necessary right now to avert disaster?
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Moreover, networking is also termed as the mainstay for any business, as it is the best possible way of communication, since it suits all types of computers and phone infrastructures.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
zcvgwsprfw
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 27 Lip 2013
Posty: 2085
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 10:32, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
For the most part,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we've all experienced personal issues,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], circumstances or storms. I am not an expert or a fancy writer. I have a voice and I want to spread it to the world. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to write.
I would like to offer you some friendly words of encouragement and that is to not give up and to persevere through your storm,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The sun will shine in your life and you'll be elevated to a higher positive point in your life.
You can learn to be positive during your storm. You can trust and believe that your storm will pass and you will escape it unscathed. Do you ever think what your storm is possibly trying to teach you? Do you really stop and think about what is going on in your life? Maybe you are being led to a higher ground in your life and your storm was sent to strengthen you and prepare you for something big in your life? Maybe your storm was sent to you so that you can develop sympathy and compassion for people? Who knows why we have to go through storms? A lot of times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], storms are sent to make us grown up. Storms happen for a reason and all of us can learn from our personal storms. Storms seem to last a long time when you are the one passing through your storm.
Author's Bio:
By Vegas Discount Gifts & Shopping
See all Articles by Todd JGet Updates on InspirationGet Updates on Todd J Average: 0 Your rating: None Tweet
What do you do when life throws lemons at you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Do you grumble,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Do you complain,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Do you yell at the world? Do you get frustrated? Do you feel like you have been taken out of your comfort zone and have to deal with new issues that you've never had to deal with before? Do you think that if you had all the money in the world that your life will change for you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Maybe,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Do you ever hope that some kind person would come and rescue you out of your storm? Do you imagine what your life will look like after your storm,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? The answer to these questions will depend on the person passing through their storm,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
All storms are different and they have different outcomes. You never know who you will help after your storm is over? You may receive the chance to offer encouraging words to another person during their storm? Close your eyes in the midst of your storm and just smile. We share a gift and that gift is smiling. Learn to utilize your smile. Smile at your storm and trust that it will pass. Hopefully,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will develop the gifts of love and patience while passing through your storm.
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Some people who are normally colorful in conversation find their delivery skills lacking in expression. And then there are those who lack color both in conversation and at the lectern.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
weifpfnab
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 19 Cze 2013
Posty: 753
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 14:37, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Author',[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];s Bio: ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
Once you've done the market research,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you need to put a plan of action into place. Plan every single step of your launch from beginning to end. You want to be prepared as much as possible to ensure a smooth and successful launch.
A pre-launch would be a good idea at this point. You want to get as much feedback from others as possible to know what they like and don't like about the product. Gathering testimonies is a good idea,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. You can use these testimonies on your website when it's time for the actual launch to take place and your product is available to everyone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Launching a product successfully on the internet can be difficult. Depending on the niche that you're targeting for your product,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], competition can be fierce. Regardless,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there are certain steps that you should take to ensure that your product launch is a successful one.
Now that you have feedback on your product and have maybe tweaked it a bit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you want to find partners to help promote your product. The best way to get a lot of exposure for your product is to contact the big names in your niche that will help spread the word about your launch. At this point you'll have a launch date set and have marketing materials handy for your partners to help promote the launch and your product.
The first step in the process is market research. It's important to know what your market needs and is looking for,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Usually there is some sort of need or problem that people have in a niche market,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. A successful product is one that helps alleviate that problem and makes their lives easier,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
By Michelle Walker
See all Articles by Michelle WalkerGet Updates on Internet MarketingGet Updates on Michelle Walker Average: 5 Your rating: None Average: 5 (1 vote) Tweet
The only thing left to do is wait for the official launch of your product. Once your product is launched, you'll want to track sales and see where your customer's are coming from to help better your marketing efforts. Keep promoting your product,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and with the help of your partners, you should have a quite successful product launch.
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Moreover, networking is also termed as the mainstay for any business, as it is the best possible way of communication, since it suits all types of computers and phone infrastructures.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
zvswgogna
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 22 Maj 2013
Posty: 2019
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 15:46, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Mainland pregnant women to flood Hong Department of health: to reflect to the relevant departments
2006-12-13 09:29:28
Hongkong local pregnant women worry about not enough care,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a group previously organized demonstrations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], requires the government to face the problem. (Wen Wei Po pictures) in Hongkong on 13 December, and in recent years a large number of mainland pregnant women giving birth in Hong Kong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Hongkong medical system overload, director of the Hongkong welfare and Food Bureau Zhou Yiyue yesterday in Beijing and the national Ministry of health officials held meetings, raise this question,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the other said, "the problem is not the Ministry of health to solve", they can only reflect to the relevant departments.
Hongkong "Wen Wei Po" quoted Zhou Yiyue said, this time to visit the Ministry of health had only five topics,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], temporary and the mainland pregnant women giving birth in Hong Kong issues. He pointed out that, in yesterday's meeting, he has reported to the State Ministry of health,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], people are very concerned about the recent mainland pregnant women to health and safety issues give birth in Hongkong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hoped that mainland pregnant women after childbirth to Hong Kong first prenatal examination.
Zhou Yiyue said, hope Wei Fu Bureau proposal can be the mainland authorities concerned, "we are very concerned about the health of mainland maternal and newborn,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], hope that the mainland to Hong Kong parturient, can pay attention to prenatal care, the maternal and newborn health and safety is very important."
Zhou Yiyue reiterated, Hongkong maternity both public hospitals or private hospitals, are close to saturation, "if the mainland mothers without prenatal examination and fixed-point medical institutions in Hongkong or to the hospital agreed in advance, Hongkong HA is very difficult to give them medical sufficient assurance."
he said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some legal loopholes to Hongkong such as births in Hongkong can get a Hongkong identity card, is the main reason to mainland women giving birth in Hong Kong's surging. "To stop this phenomenon, research and consultation to the two departments, in order to make the relevant provisions, but I'm afraid there is not a good way."
the outside worries Hongkong local pregnant women will be affected, Zhou Yiyue points out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the HA will first serve local women, migrant women and treatment. He said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the priority policy "will be published details on short-term."
the National Health Ministry spokesman Mao Qunan said the day before yesterday, the media reported that pregnant women from the mainland to Hong Kong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], childbirth, authorities will strengthen the reproductive health institutions management, to provide good service to the masses. For giving birth in Hong Kong they use two policy loopholes, he described is a complicated problem, will actively cooperate with the relevant departments, do a good job in management.
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Hongkong "business daily" today published an editorial that attract sb.'s attention, "snake cake" landscape, is to remind the relevant aspects should pay attention to the order control, also reflects some of our society and culture, is indeed worthy of reflection.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
japisfvp
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 14 Cze 2013
Posty: 1508
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 17:44, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
I am honored to write about the truly amazing children I have met who possess remarkable abilities to heal,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], see energy fields, and embrace a 6th sense. I vowed to one day write their story, and now the excitement of publishing a book about them -- and the many others who are being born now with spiritual abilities, is exhilarating!
I would like your input as to the title for this book. I have several ideas floating around, and I would love for you to let me know which title appeals most to you. Your feedback is valuable, and as I am in the processing of editing my manuscript, I am at the final stages before publication. The sooner I decide on the title, the better. Here are the choices so far:
Picking up Vibes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Recognizing and nurturing children with spiritual powers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Author's Bio:
What makes this book unique is that it explains our changing world and shows how spiritually gifted children are an integral part of our evolution There are easy to read guidelines for parents who are raising such remarkable kids. You see, many of the children coming into the earthplane now are extremely sensitive, and as a result,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they are challenged in many areas.
These children have been given several lables: Indigos,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Crystals, etc. But many peopIe are unaware of the increasing numbers of special children like these. I am telling their story to spread awareness, and offering practical guidelines for parents and all of us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], really, to more easily provide the spiritual,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], physical and emotional support that these children need.
I appreciate your taking the time to send me a message indicating your title preference,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Thank you so much for being a part of my miracle in writing this important book!
By Linda Carter Backes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], RM
See all Articles by Linda BackesSee Linda Backes',[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];s Expert PageGet Updates on New AgeGet Updates on Linda Backes Average: 0 Your rating: None Tweet
What the Children See. A look into the lives of spiritually gifted children
Serving in Love, Light & Joy -- Linda Carter Backes, RM
The Children in our Midst. A Guidebook to identify and nuture spiritually gifted children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
I am asking for your help. . ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
weifpfnab
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 19 Cze 2013
Posty: 753
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 19:07, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Marginal costing is a very important technique of decision making,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It is a comparatively new area in the field of accounting but it is gradually gaining more and more acceptance. It is the method of matching cost with revenue to determine periodic income,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It is the ascertainment of marginal cost and of the effect on profit of changes on volume or type of output by
differentiating fixed costs and variable cost. In this context it is to be noted that it is not a system of costing like process or job costing but it is simply an approach to the presentation of accounting information meaningful to management. in this all cost are segregated into fixed and variable components. only the variable costs are regarded as product cost and are used to value inventory and cost of goods sold.the fixed cost are treated as period cost and are charged directly to profit and loss account. thus no part of fixed manufacturing cost is deferred to the next period as inventory. while preparing a profit and loss account on marginal costing basis,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the variable or marginal cost of sales is deducted from sales value and the difference is termed as contribution margin.
By Monica Gupta
See all Articles by Monica GuptaGet Updates on Career Coach and Career CoachingGet Updates on Monica Gupta Average: 0 Your rating: None Tweet
Author',[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];s Bio: ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
Theoretically marginal cost and differential cost are the same. If there is no change in fixed cost then both these cost will be same,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Thus marginal cost does not include fixed cost at all whereas differential cost may include an element of fixed cost as well if fixed cost changes due to a decision.
Marginal costing application in managerial decision making:
a) A trade depression in industry
b) Dumping
c) A seasonal fluctuations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Marginal cost is synonymous with variable costs, prime costs plus variable overheads in the short run but,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in a way,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], would also include fixed cost in the planning production activities over a long period of time involving an increase in the productive capacity of business. Thus in decision making problems ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],marginal costs are related to change in output under particular circumstances of a case.
This is a well known concept of economic theory,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. It may be described as the change in total cost which arises as a result of an increase and decrease by one unit in volume of output,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Marginal cost is an amount at any given volume of output by which aggregate costs are changed if the volume of output is increased or decreased by one unit.
The technique of marginal costing is a valuable aid to management in taking various policy decisions. Following are the few problems where managerial costing analysis is useful:
1) Pricing of products: product pricing is usually considered to be a difficult problem,particularly in non-repetitive production. the problem is to equate the demand and supply in such cases marginal costing is very helpful. This technique can help management in fixing prices in such circumstances:
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Moreover, networking is also termed as the mainstay for any business, as it is the best possible way of communication, since it suits all types of computers and phone infrastructures.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
japisfvp
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 14 Cze 2013
Posty: 1508
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 21:22, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Somewhere out there is a lost soul who needs to be found. Don’t give up; just let them know they are loved. We cannot control someone else’s actions, only our own. Sometimes people just have to go down that road in order to find their true self. All we can do is wait, hope and pray they find their way home.
You were always independent, and you remained curious about life and everything in it. Your compassion for others grew and your smile grew even bigger. You brought life to everyone around you.
Look in the mirror. What do you see? A soul that is lost and hurting, that wants to be free. Free from pain and suffering and a life that has hardened your heart. Look at your eyes so sunken in, because you closed your heart. You’re not hopeless or helpless, what is lost is your soul. Now tell yourself you are worthy of a life full of love and hope. You have to start by loving you; this is where it begins. Tell yourself you are worthy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and get up and try again. You are a gift to this world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tell yourself all the time. This world needs your love and compassion.
You ARE the most precious gift that the world can receive. From the moment you were born you were so loved. Your beautiful smile lit up your face. As you grew,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I saw your curious mind lead you places. Your innocence was so refreshing in a world filled with hate. Your loving nature makes you so special and your laughter is great. Your heart is bigger than any forest and your compassion runs deeper than any ocean.
When you think everyone’s given up on you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], don’t harden your heart and hate the world. Look back at your memories, hold on tight to that wonderful past. Don’t let your hopes and dreams fade into dust, go back to better times and learn to feel trust. Search in your heart; learn to live and love again.
You are worthy of such greatness, but you can’t see; behind that thick wall you built full of anger,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], fear, disappointment and resentment. Take one brick at a time and name it after the times you were hurt,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the people that have hurt you, and the times that life has been unfair to you; throw that brick as hard and as far as you can. You can do better than that! Throw it as hard as you can! Tear that wall down one brick at a time. With each brick you throw your heart shines through more and more.
When you are ready,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], come take my hand. I will love and hold you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and understand. Sometimes this life isn’t easy; it’s unfair and hard to stand. Just know when you get knocked down each time is easier to get back up. Not because your heart is hardened, but because you have love.
Author's Bio: ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
By Tami Principe
See all Articles by Womens Recreation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Inc.See Womens Recreation, Inc.'s Expert PageGet Updates on General Self HelpGet Updates on Womens Recreation, Inc. Average: 4.5 Your rating: None Average: 4.5 (2 votes) Tweet
Years later, I have tried to help you as I’ve watched you change. Your words are so hurtful and you’ve become so strange. This self-confident person that I once adored has new friends, a new wardrobe, and a whole lot more. You are so distant and as I try to get through. Is it drugs, alcohol, or is this the new you? Now your days are dark, the light barely peaks in. You have changed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], what was once a smile, it barely a grin. Your eyes have become weary from all the heart strings torn; I wish I could help you, but this journey is yours alone.
Just know that you’re loved so much more than you’ll ever know. Know that you are not deserted, we pray you find the door. When you feel lost,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], alone and blue; that happy little boy/girl is still inside of you. You still have the compassion just don’t let it hide. I pray I see that sweet angel who has my heart in your hand. Just know that you are the most precious gift that this world can receive. You are so special and will always be!
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
poewrpona
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 28 Cze 2013
Posty: 1231
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Wto 22:35, 27 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
By Kathleen Hennessey-Buchanan, Personal Life Coach
See all Articles by Kathleen Hennessey BuchananSee Kathleen Hennessey Buchanan's Expert PageGet Updates on Bipolar DisorderGet Updates on Kathleen Hennessey Buchanan Average: 3.5 Your rating: None Average: 3.5 (2 votes) Tweet
As I came to find out later the answer to that question is NO,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or at least not very much of it. Through many hours of research, supported by my conversations with various therapists and psychologists, I determined that he probably only remembered about 25% or less of what was said or done.
Come visit my website at and register to receive my soon to be released EBook, IT'S NOT MY DISEASE: Coping Strategies for Partners of Those Afflicted with Mood Disorders.
Author's Bio: ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
I know what you're saying "sure, easier said then done". I agree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it's not easy, but it is one of the best coping skills I've developed to take the air out of the hot air balloon (a/k/a bipolar disorder) before it rises too high in the sky. I understand that when he's pushing your buttons and being completely irrational,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], of course, you want to defend yourself. You just have to tell him that what he's saying is wrong! You just have to tell him that you don't deserve what he's doing to you! You just have to tell him how much it hurts when he says these things! You just have to tell him he's being a jerk! But saying any of these things in the midst of an episode will accomplish nothing except to fuel the propane tank that blasts that hot air into the balloon. Think about it and be honest with yourself, without that blast, how far can the balloon go?
Prior to finding out that he was suffering from Bipolar disorder, and quite frequently I must add,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he would get extremely angry for seemingly ridiculous reasons and start saying mean and terrible things to me. Being the tough,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], independent woman that I am, I would fight back, defend myself or tell him how insane he was. The result: more rage, crueler comments, more accusations and more volume until eventually one of us would walk out or walk away with doors slamming, tears flowing, and threats of divorce or worse lingering in the air. I was always devastated by what he said or the things he said he was going to do. Sometimes he'd leave for an hour or for an entire day. Either way he'd usually come back and act as if nothing ever happened. "Hey sweetie what's up" followed by "what's your problem" when I didn't happily respond to his return. Did he not remember what he said? Did he not remember what he did?
That fact brings me to the most important reason why not to engage - you are not fighting with your partner - you are fighting with the disease,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are fighting with bipolar disorder.
I can honestly say that we haven't had one of "those" fights in a very long time. I'm not saying that there are no longer episodes or that we don't have disagreements but by using this technique, and others, we've accepted the responsibility to either fight fair or walk away when we start heading in the wrong direction.
Yes it's frustrating, it's stressful and it's demeaning. When you first start using this technique it will take practice and it might appear that your silence is infuriating him even more but stick with it because somewhere deep inside in the memory banks it will start to register that this behavior serves no purpose,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], reaps no rewards and that you are no longer going to allow this disease to control you or your relationship.
"I will not engage; I will not engage; I will not engage. No matter what mean, cruel or hurtful things he says,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], does or accuses me of, I will not engage."
I can't tell you how many times that verse has gone through my head,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], since my husband was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder II,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], superimposed with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome.
We are constantly adding tools to our arsenal of skills and techniques to prevent the symptoms of bipolar from destroying our relationship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. In future articles I will share some of the other successful coping techniques that we use to control the affects of bipolar disorder on our relationship.
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
weifpfnab
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 19 Cze 2013
Posty: 753
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Śro 4:40, 28 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Author's Bio: ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
Having a step-by-step pre-qualifying process helps dramatically. It will help you evaluate each person the same. When you go in to get your annual physical the doctor doesn’t just “wing” it. The doctor sends you through the same steps as every other patient taking an annual physical. All patients have their blood pressure checked and blood and urine samples tested. The doctors and nurses don’t skip a step. Create a step-by-step process to qualify your prospects. There is no substitute for experience. Like anything in life, the more you do something the better you get. Michael Jordan was the greatest basketball player of all time because of will and practice. Even though he was cut from his high school team, he focused on improving; his practice habits improved between high school and the NBA.
By Dirk Zeller
See all Articles by Dirk ZellerSee Dirk Zeller',[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];s Expert PageGet Updates on ProductivityGet Updates on Dirk Zeller Average: 2,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].142855 Your rating: None Average: 2,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].1 (7 votes) Tweet
There were transactions and people in my sales career that didn’t pass the smell test. There was just something that didn’t feel or smell right. Rather than hoping it would all come out in the wash,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I would pour bleach on the situation by questioning and digging deeper. The gray stains would be bleached to white,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and I would be able to see my next step much clearer.
How do you know when a prospect or client is going to waste your time or go the distance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? That is something new Agents and some experienced Agents struggle with regularly.
I had one rule when working with people: It usually gets worse under pressure,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not better. The deal that is in escrow that is shaky the first week remains shaky all the way through and usually gets worse. Our solution was to tighten or kill it in the first week. This solution would either remove the escrow or solidify it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so that it would close easier. The prospect that is flaky at the very beginning usually doesn’t get any better. Qualify him hard to either get him to commit to you with certainty or remove him from your life and move on. The seller at the listing appointment who will not take your counsel on price is a great example. Does that person get better or worse 30 days down the road? Usually 30 days later he blames you because his home hasn’t sold. Actually,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], his failure to accept your price counsel was the reason.
The experience of working with many prospects and clients helps you develop a sixth sense. The only way to develop that sixth sense is through making mistakes and learning from them. Since a sixth sense is developed by experiences, the number of years you do something has very little to do with it. Let’s say that you need to do 100 closings to have a functional and operational sixth sense. You could take 10 years to do those 100 closings or two years. By doing more,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will develop your sixth sense more quickly.
Develop your sixth sense quickly by creating more opportunities with prospects. The more opportunities you have,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the more selective you can be with who becomes a client. Don’t neglect to listen to that sixth sense you are developing. Rarely will you be wrong.
相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
When you work from home, there are plenty of excuses to avoid getting down to business. One of the most frequent reasons clients give me for procrastinating about their work is that they just don’t like their home office.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
Zobacz poprzedni temat :: Zobacz następny temat |
Autor |
Wiadomość |
zvswgogna
Specjalny Fun Clubowicz
Dołączył: 22 Maj 2013
Posty: 2019
Przeczytał: 0 tematów
Ostrzeżeń: 0/5 Skąd: England
|
Wysłany: Śro 6:22, 28 Sie 2013 Temat postu: |
|
|
Hu Yue two Secretary why are so concerned about Ma?
 ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];  ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; 2008-02-24 14:51:42  ,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych];
social commentary in the Hongkong on 24 February, and the CPC Central Committee Political Bureau, Guangdong provincial Party Secretary Wang Yang said the bank must have a look to Alibaba Jack ma. "I come to have a look,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma exactly how a person, Alibaba exactly is a what kind of company." Alibaba headquarters to Hangzhou, Wang straight to Alibaba founder Ma Yun said. (the February 22nd "daily of the first finance and economics")
a few days ago, Wang Yang in Shanghai Province,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Shanghai municipal Party committee secretary Yu Zhengsheng and he especially mentioned that Ma Yun,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and feeling why Shanghai didn't keep Ma Yun, two people and then is Ma Yun discussed issues, Yang said: "the words of Yu Zhengsheng made me a great shock". At a meeting of the eleven session of the Shanghai City People's Political Consultative Conference held in January 27th this year, Yu Zhengsheng in the face of CPPCC members, on the "Shanghai why didn't Ma Yun" are reflected: "one day I see Alibaba boss Ma Yun, he said to me, Alibaba is initially in Shanghai, then back to Hangzhou", "I lost a small enterprise development into a giant enterprises feel very sorry". Yu Zhengsheng asked Shanghai to reflect on why Ma Yun not, do not leave Ma Yun problem in Shanghai and even the whole country has caused tremendous repercussions.
Xinhua article published by Yu Fenghui article said, Shanghai, Guangdong, China is the forefront of reform and opening up and the leader, but also the most able to represent China's reform and development of the great achievements and the great achievements in economic development. In the eyes of other parts of the country, Shanghai,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Guangdong's economic development model, it is worth learning. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Yun has attracted great attention of two secretaries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a reflection of Shanghai why not Ma Yun, do not leave Ma Yun, one must have a look to Alibaba Ma Yun.
Shanghai and Guangdong two secretary so concerned about the Ma Yun, is the great achievement of Ma Yun obtains the affirmation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ma Yun put the Alibaba people from several "small workshop" do world-class enterprise, do to the United States successfully listed, and stock prices and good performance, be bought Chinese Yahoo!, do their own status in the forefront in China, it is not easy. Especially Alibaba to find the marketing channel and a new model for Chinese enterprises, the meaning is very big.
the article said, Shanghai and Guangdong two secretary so concerned about Ma, fully illustrated two Secretary love eager, loving entrepreneurs eager love, innovative entrepreneurs more. Hu Yue two secretary so concerned about the Ma Yun,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], also revealed that two of the region to seriously reflect on their talent discovery mechanism, entrepreneurial environment and the spirit of innovation. "To promote a new round of development" for a new round of emancipating the mind, is the new requirement of Guangdong Guangdong provincial Party Secretary Wang Yang as the Guangdong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], expect countless Ma such talent and creativity.相关的主题文章:
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]
reports, this is the Japanese government in August of this year officially granted the Japanese Imperial oil test drilling oil and natural gas rights in the East China Sea, the East China Sea energy development again published remarks.
Post został pochwalony 0 razy
|
|
Powrót do góry |
|
 |
|
|
Możesz pisać nowe tematy Możesz odpowiadać w tematach Nie możesz zmieniać swoich postów Nie możesz usuwać swoich postów Nie możesz głosować w ankietach
|
fora.pl - załóż własne forum dyskusyjne za darmo
Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2005 phpBB Group
|