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after 6 years of painstaking construction, today at zero nine in the morning, Zhuyong highway from Panan to Yongjia South opening. So far, Hangzhou to Wenzhou -- the shortcut of zhuji-yongjia Expressway opened,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the two intercity traffic only 3.5 hours.
Zhuyong highway is one of the main trunk Expressway in Zhejiang Province, network engineering,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], connecting line is Hangjinqu, Kim Yong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Taiwan and Wenzhou city four high-speed trunk line. The total length of about 225 kilometers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Shaoxing Zhuji, Jinhua Dongyang and Panan Xianju, Taizhou, Yongjia, Wenzhou 5 counties (city) 42 villages and towns,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the original secluded home in the mountains,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a connecting the Zhejiang expressway network hub,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all the investment budget of about 16400000000 yuan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Zhejiang is the largest single investment of highway engineering.
Zhuyong highway runs through the middle of Zhejiang hill, hill and the Cangshan market three big mountains, because the road lot wearing hills and valleys, high-speed traffic police to remind the driver friend, when traveling to the downhill,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the vehicle due to brake in time or failure, prone to accidents, should be in low gear reduction driving; conversely, traveling to the uphill road, prone to rear-end accident, should keep a safe distance between vehicles, reasonable speed.
Zhuyong Expressway opened to traffic today zero hour 09 points, on the high speed read the "manual", fixed speed position 28 note, the permanent high "Wuduosan difficult car", the full fare 140 yuan
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high speed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the high speed traffic, hang high speed mileage reduced to about 300 km, is up three,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ningbo-Taiwan high-speed reduce the mileage of 27 km,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is go hang Jinqu Jinliwen high-speed, reduce the mileage of 68 km.
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Quzhou local environmental protection volunteers Dong Zheng told reporters, two days before he had once, see everywhere is the egret chicks body and broken eggs: "as the tree was cut down, the nest will all fall down."

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around 10 a.m.,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Licheng brigade police on duty at the port channel at the toll station, stopped a car at a speed of 158 km Hebei license plate car, when the police according to the requirements of test driver's license,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], driving permit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], driver paid a call do not know where to put,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not with the police.
as a fluke, pay a two illegal punishment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], was sentenced to a fine of 3000 yuan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], deduct 18 point penalty. The police introduced, in accordance with the provisions of the 12 full license, need to learn.
due to the mountainous highway Zile high-speed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the speed limit is 100 kilometers, a speed has reached more than 50%, according to police and fined 2000 yuan, deduction of 6 points, the license plate plus a use of other vehicles,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], shall be fined 1000 yuan, deduction of 12 points.
police think there is something strange, then asked the driver to open the trunk, found a pair of Jilin vehicle license plate. In front of two plates,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the driver had to come up with a driving license,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he is only used in other account license in order to avoid speeding capture.
yesterday, Zile high-speed Licheng brigade police investigated and dealt with a speed of 158 km / hour, apply the other vehicle number plate of the car, the driver paid a "two crimes" punishment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a fine of 3000 yuan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], deduct 18 point penalty.
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Qilu network March 31st news reporter from the Shandong provincial government information office, 2009 year Shandong tax hundred enterprises list formally announced this morning.

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"True liberation can only be found beyond the deep ambivalence of infantile dependence.... But a child can never see through unconscious manipulation. It is like the air he breathes; he knows no other, and it appears to him to be the only normal possibility. (p. 23-24)
"The examples Alice Miller presents make us aware of the child’s unarticulated suffering and of the tragedy of parents who are unavailable to their children – the same parents who, when they were children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], were unavailable to fill their parents’ needs. In her psychoanalytical work, Dr. Miller found that her patients’ ability to experience authentic feelings, especially feelings of sadness, had been for the most part destroyed; it was her task to help her patients try to regain that long-lost capacity for genuine feelings, which is the source of natural vitality."
"I understand a healthy self-feeling to mean the unquestioned certainty that the feelings and wishes one experiences are a part of one’s self.... This automatic, natural contact with his own emotions and wishes gives an individual strength and self-esteem. He may live out his feelings, be sad, despairing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or in need of help, without fear of making the introjected mother insecure. He can allow himself to be afraid when he is threatened, or angry when his wishes are not fulfilled. He knows not only what he does not want but also what he wants and is able to express this, irrespective of whether he will be loved or hated for it. (p.33)
By Carl H. Shubs, Ph.D.
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"Probably everybody has a more or less concealed inner chamber that he hides even from himself and in which the props of his childhood drama are to be found.... The only ones who will certainly gained entrance to this hidden chamber are his children.... The props may well have frightened him at times.... They represented the split-off, unintegrated part of the parents. But the child cannot experience this contradiction consciously; he simply accepts everything and, at the most, develops symptoms. (p. 25- 26)
-------------- For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence. New York: Farrar, Straus, Giroux. 1983.
These three books will be excerpted here separately. This article begins with the first of her books as Part I. Parts II and III will each follow in later postings.
"The true opposition of depression is not gaiety or absence of pain, but vitality: the freedom to experience spontaneous feelings. It is part of the kaleidoscope of life that these feelings are not only cheerful, "beautiful," and "good;" they also can display the whole scale of human experience, including envy, jealousy, rage, disgust, greed, despair, and mourning.... The "true self" is thus only possible when he no longer has to be afraid of the intense... emotional world of his early childhood. (p. 57)
She will be greatly missed, but her legacy stands strong and will continue to provide an anchor for those people who grew up in the midst of emotional abuse that was never recognized. She stands witness to those invisible scars and proclaims their damage. Those children who had to endure such injuries no longer have to stand alone, because she stands with them and says, "I know. I understand."
Alice Miller. Prisoners of Childhood: The Drama of the Gifted Child and the Search for the True Self. New York: Basic Books. 1981.
In Memoriam: Alice Miller
"Children who fulfill their parents’ conscious or unconscious wishes are 'good,' but if they ever refuse to do so or express wishes of their own that go against those of their parents, they are called egoistic and inconsiderate. It usually does not occur to the parents that they might need and use the child to fulfill their own egoistic wishes. (p. vii)
-------------- Thou Shalt Not Be Aware. New York: Farrar, Straus, Giroux. 1984.
"One is totally defenseless against this sort of manipulation in childhood. The tragedy is that the parents have no defense against it, since they do not know what is happening,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and even if they have some inkling can do nothing to change it. Their conscious aims are genuinely quite different,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even giving every possible support; but unconsciously the parents’ childhood tragedy is continued in their children. (p. 25)
Alice Miller wrote three wonderful and powerful books about the dilemma of children who grow up with parents who had experienced emotional hurt and/or deprivation from their own parents. We often tend to think that the emotional injuries suffered by children occur only in an environment of parental malice, but unfortunately that is not the case. Often, as Dr. Miller so eloquently and poignantly portrays, a parent’s emotional inadequacies, deficiencies, insecurities, injuries, and incomplete emotional and psychological development are unconsciously passed on to or perpetrated upon their children. She draws upon historical figures, such as Adolph Hitler, case studies that are well known in the psychoanalytic literature such as The Wolf Man, and figures from literature and mythology to illustrate her points. She frequently focuses on issues concerning physical and sexual abuse, but she clearly recognizes and asserts how childhood experiences of psychological and emotional hurts can be just as damaging, even when those hurts and injuries may have been inflicted unconsciously and even when their purveyor may have had the best of intentions.
Alice Miller was a source of inspiration and support for many of my patients. Her books have stood as a beacon in the dark to many people who grew up in the kinds of homes she describes and who felt invisible in their struggles with hurt, pain, and suffering because their injuries were emotional, not physical, and had occurred in regular parent child interactions and not as a result of physical or sexual abuse, though that may have also happened. As one of my patients said, in contrasting her to his own mother, "She was like the mother I wanted but never had."
"How inconceivable it is really to love others (not merely to need them), if one cannot love oneself as one really is. And how could a person do that if, from the very beginning,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he has had no chance to experience his true feelings and to learn to know himself? (p. viii-ix)
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From the book jacket (Prisoners of Childhood: The Drama of the Gifted Child and the Search for the True Self):
"The 'drama' of the gifted – i.e., sensitive, alert – child consists of his recognition at a very early age of his parents’ needs and of his adaptation to those needs. In the process, he learns to repress rather than to acknowledge his own intense feelings because they are unacceptable to his parents. Although it will not always be possible to avoid these "ugly" feelings (e.g.,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], anger, indignation, despair, jealousy, fear) in the future,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they will split off, i.e., the most vital part of the 'true self' (a key phrase in Alice Miller’s works) will not be integrated into the personality. This leads to emotional insecurity and loss of self, which are revealed in depression or concealed behind the facade of grandiosity.
"When the patient has truly emotionally worked through the history of his childhood, and he has so regained his sense of being alive – then the goal of the analysis has been reached.... When the patient, in the course of his analysis, has consciously repeatedly experienced (and not only learned from the analyst’s interpretations) how the whole process of his bringing up did manipulate him in his childhood, and what desires for revenge this has left him with, then he will see through manipulation quicker than before and will himself have less need to manipulate others.... He will be in less danger of idealizing people or systems if he has realized clearly enough how as a child he has taken every word uttered by mother or father for the deepest wisdom... Finally, a person who has consciously worked through the whole tragedy of his own fate will recognize another’s suffering more clearly and quickly, though the other may still have to try to hide it. He will not be scornful of others’ feelings, whatever their nature,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], because he can take his own feelings seriously. He surely will not help to keep the vicious circle of contempt turning. (p. 111-113)"
"[T]here are needs that can and should be satisfied in the present.... Among these is every human being’s central need to express himself – to show himself to the world as he really is – in word, in gesture, in behavior, in every genuine utterance from the baby’s cry to the artist’s creation. (p. 81-82)
While it may be helpful for the reader to have a psychological background, it is certainly not necessary in order to fully appreciate what Miller is saying. In fact, before I read these books, I had heard so much about them from people who are not themselves psychotherapists,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that I had the impression that the books were all written for the layperson.
"When our children can consciously experience their early helplessness and narcissistic rage, they will no longer need to ward off their helplessness, in turn, with exercise of power over others. In most cases, however, one’s own childhood suffering remains affectively inaccessible and thus forms the hidden source of new and sometimes very subtle humiliation for the next generation. (p. 70)
One of the great advocates of children and their struggles against unrecognized mistreatment has died. “Alice Miller, a psychoanalyst who repositioned the family as a locus of dysfunction with her theory that parental power and punishment lay at the root of nearly all human problems, died at her home in Provence on April 14. She was 87” (New York Times, April 26, 2010). “The author of a dozen books, Miller was best known for her first endeavor, 'The Drama of the Gifted Child and the Search for the True Self.' Published in the U.S. in 1981 as 'Prisoners of Childhood,' it sold more than a million copies with its shocking thesis that nearly all children are abused but repress the pain and are likely to repeat the unhealthy patterns with the next generation” (Los Angeles Times, May 1,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 2010). “There is not any doubt that Mrs. Alice Miller’s greatest wish in her life was that everybody does fully understand that maltreating a child has a disastrous impact on his future life and finally will reflect negatively on the entire society” (Brigitte Oriol, Official Notice, Alice Miller website [www.alicemiller.com], April 23, 2010)
Prisoners of Childhood lays the groundwork that is carried through in her next two books. The following quotes from this book will explain her orientation of understanding and perspective.
"A child is at the mother’s disposal.... A child can be so brought up that it becomes what she [mother] wants it to be. A child can be made to show respect, she can impose her own feelings on him, see herself mirrored in his love and admiration, and feel strong in his presence, but when he becomes too much she can abandon that child to a stranger. The mother can feel herself the center of attention,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for her child’s eyes follow her everywhere. When a woman had to suppress and repress all these needs in relation to her own mother, they rise from the depths of her unconscious and seek gratification through her own child, however well-educated and well-intentioned she may be, and however much she is aware of what a child needs. The child feels this clearly and very soon forgoes the expression of his own distress. (p. 11)
"A mother can have the best intentions to respect her child and yet be unable to do so, so long as she does not realize what deep shame she causes him with an ironic remark, intended only to cover her own uncertainty. Indeed, she cannot be aware of how deeply humiliated,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], despised, and devalued her child feels, if she herself has never consciously suffered these feelings, if she tries to fend them off with irony.... One can, however, develop sensitivity toward recognizing it and can experience it consciously, and thus gain control over it. (p. 90)
"Often a child’s very gift, his great intensity of feeling, depth of experience, curiosity, intelligence, quickness – and his ability to be critical – will confront his parents with conflicts that they have long sought to keep at bay with rules and regulations. These regulations must then be rescued at the cost of the child’s development. (p. 97)
"Alice Miller defines the ideal state of genuine vitality, of free access to the true self, and to authentic individual feelings that have their roots in childhood, as 'healthy narcissism.' Narcissistic disturbances, on the other hand, represent for her solitary confinement of the true self within the prison of the false self. This is regarded less as an illness than a tragedy.
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"[A] mother who, as a child, was herself not taken seriously by her mother as the person she really was will crave this respect from her child as a substitute; and she will try to get it by training him to give it to her. (p. viii)
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Sure relationships can easily get into a predictable routine. Both partners take each other for granted because the other individual has always done what was needed to uphold the marriage contract.
For that reason even with the following indications of cheating in the relationship use caution. Use them as touchstones in order to continue your investigation not as excuses to have a showdown with your significant other,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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1. Overtime Work
It is very hard to carry on an extramarital relationship yet still keep the openness of the marriage. Something has to give and that typically takes the shape of your wife or husband building a barrier to keep all intruders out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. In cases like this that means you.
3. A Whole New Person
Just make certain that it's shows up in your mate's check,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Should they refuse to show you the earnings statement or simply make some excuse as to why the amount of time they allegedly worked is not reflected then you may be right about what is going on,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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However right now the situation is completely different. You believe that your mate's desires are elsewhere,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. more accurately with somebody else,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Of course nobody wants to believe that unfaithfulness in the marital relationship will happen to them. This is something that usually happens to Hollywood stars, politicians and even acquaintances of yours but never you.
They disappear to other areas of the home as soon as they get a call or when they log on to their laptop,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Speaking with them relating to an issue apart from family obligations becomes more problematic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. They may at the same time begin locking up a number of their personal possessions whereas before no such barrier existed between the two of you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
You cannot just accuse them of fooling around without evidence. This by itself could very well wreck the marriage or perhaps enable them to lie and utilize your shortage of proof to thoroughly manipulate the situation as well as you personally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
This is certainly one of the telltale indications of infidelity. Your significant other could be working late hours,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. After all these are tough economic times so if the boss is providing the opportunity to earn some extra dollars then you really should take it.
2. Enhanced Privacy
But at this moment in time your own intuition is letting you know that your mate is not very forthcoming regarding their whereabouts. Not only this but when they are in your presence you cannot help but get the impression they are not really there.
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small group results yesterday announced, large number of parents waiting at the door early in the morning, the mood of tension. (PAO) in Hongkong on 6 June, and Hongkong small unionist results yesterday (5 days), and parents to make their children enrolled in school each strange plan: some parents several years ahead of deployment, spending five million cross home in Kowloon Tong School network,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some flyer throwing only fill in single volunteer, some month spend million let their children a wide range of learning all kinds of interest. The only computer group more "hit", parents could have got one's wish to fill in the volunteer only single,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], some shot gun type is assigned to not fill in the unhappy school, with luck, the parents have a month to spend thousands of yuan to let her daughter to participate in extracurricular activities, but have never choose the school,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is joy people worry, just pitiful world parents heart.
Hongkong Ta Kung Pao reported, more than twenty thousand school-age children attend unified group, deficiency of 80% allocated the first three volunteers, the lowest for four years. Kowloon Tong forty-first school network elite schools to send a center, not to open, is outside the row of dozens of anxious parents, hope can know as early as possible to send a result. For the sake of son read into the traditional school La Salle primary school, the family moved from Shenzhen to Kowloon Tong Zhuang one year ago,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a month to spend two to thirty thousand yuan rental units.
apply for a work visa family from deep moved to Hong Kong
Zhuang too said, her husband in the electronic procurement business, a family of three has been living in Shenzhen,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the port security and stability, as well as the education quality is better, so the whole family to come to Hong Kong to apply for a work visa. Bo into the schools, she is willing to take risks,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but to fill the Laksa as the only volunteer, the other 20 choices at disregarding, the son was Pailasha, excited face.
Hong parents spend month million for the interest class
results nervous before tossing and turning to Liu Tai, only son in La Salle as the only volunteer, but for son enrolled in private and DSS primary school as a backup. When receiving a registration certificate, "a note that is in the" Liu Taixiao ",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not the mouth, very happy, didn't think luck draw". She said, "grant schools, undivided attention only to read La Salle primary school, even writing school choice form, I was advised shall fill out two, but in the end will only fill a". For the son l read a good school, her month spent ten thousand yuan,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], let the son in English,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], mathematics, Violin class.
Tuen Mun moved Kowloon Tong on your rent.
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Of course, the deepest sense of security and stability comes from one’s connection to a Higher Power, or one’s Higher Self. This is an important time to connect with that which is ultimately meaningful to you. Spend time in prayer, silence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], contemplation or meditation; know that you are looked after and that there is a larger purpose in all that goes on.
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C) Express Love, Warmth and Solidarity
How To Handle Post Traumatic Syndrome
What Happens In Post Traumatic Syndrome
Allow yourself to feel what is going on, breathe deeply through the feelings, and allow them to pass. Let go. Do not try to control the feelings. They are only energy that is now being released. These feelings are simply a response to what you have been through; they do not mean that something is wrong with you. When they arise be gentle with yourself, kind and patient. When these feelings are not resisted, they pass more easily.
It helps a great deal, first of all, to understand what is going on. Some people become terrified that they are going crazy, or losing control. Just realizing that it is perfectly normal for these feelings to be discharged will help a great deal. Do not fear your feelings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are simply finally reacting to the shock you’ve been through.
Post traumatic syndrome simply means that the feelings a person has repressed during trauma are now arising. These feelings have been caused by the trauma and arise when the person feels able to tolerate their fear, grief, anger, pain and helplessness. Some are able to do it sooner, for others it can even take years. The feelings may hit at any moment and when they do the person may not understand what is happening. Seemingly out of the blue a person can start shaking, crying, or going into rage. Anything can tick it off, even something seemingly unrelated. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is the reaction to the original trauma that is now being released.
D) Do What You Can To Help
We may fear for our continuing safety and the safety of those we love, and not know where to turn for a sense of true stability. At this juncture issues we may not have faced or dealt with arise strongly.
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B) Do Not Be Ashamed – Do Not Resist Feelings
It takes time to absorb sudden changes and individuals react in different ways. For some the need arises, to maintain stability at all costs. They may go into denial, and seem to not register what’s going on. These individuals go on with their lives as though nothing has changed. However, they are unconsciously processing what has happened, taking time to absorb it all. By pretending that nothing has changed they are simply doing their best to maintain the semblance of normalcy. At this point they ear that they will be overwhelmed if they allow themselves to feel anything at all. When the individual feels more able to deal with his feelings, or when the danger has passed and they feel safer, the buried feelings begin to come up.
A) Understand What Is Happening – It Is Normal
It helps to be with those you love and care for. Friendship, bonding and love are wonderful antidotes for the feeling of meaningless and danger. Hug each other,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], express your love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], know that although part of the world has crumbled,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a great deal of good remains. There is stability in the love you can now share with others. Don’t hold back.
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We all feel that the world is stable and secure, that sudden change and loss will not happen,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], at least not to those or us we know. When the world as we know it suddenly changes and the impossible happens, not only can we experience shock and trauma, but our normal anchors can disappear. Confusion arises, numbness and sometimes a sense of helplessness.
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direct cross-strait "three links" to achieve the tourism market mean? The travel agency industry are of the view that the development of our tourism market is undoubtedly a good news. Many people have said in the interview, the normalization of cross-strait charter flights, and the mainland tour line number in Taiwan stay, relax the restrictions on travel to Taiwan, mainland tourists will form a "good".
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series: something about December 15th, with the cross-strait direct shipping,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], air transport, direct mail and daily charter flights to start, Taiwan media earlier idea of "cross-strait one-day living circle" concept into reality. In this regard,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the tourist industry expressed welcome, think "communication and cooperation links" direct charter flights normalization will greatly facilitate the compatriots on both sides of the Straits exchanges and cross-strait economic and cultural fields, especially in tourism is more save time and money, visitors will also be more diversified......
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For me this pattern could begin to change only when I realized that I was “good enough” already. I am perfect just as I am. I wasn’t responsible for what happened way back when; for how my father did or didn’t love me. That was his stuff, I couldn’t have done anything any differently and I couldn’t have influenced his behaviour and “make” him stay or not be harmful. It wasn’t about me, therefore,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I didn’t need to keep carrying the story that I wasn’t good enough. Therefore, I could drop the games. I could centre and ground myself in me and see myself as a person of worth a deservedness and love and beauty regardless of who was or wasn’t in my life. Only at that point did I become a healthy and safe person to have a relationship with, before then ……not so good!
Further to that point – I realized that I had a hard time identifying the feeling or experience of true, deep, mature love – I seemed only to be able to identify sensations of happiness or approval and sensations of hurt/sadness/anger or disapproval – so if I wasn’t feeling the happy/approval thoughts I would assume that perhaps I’m not loving this person anymore and so I would feel inauthentic hugging him or expressing my love as openly and freely as I would have a moment before the disagreement. As I became aware of this pattern I also became aware that I was doing what Pinkola-Estes spoke of: Namely, I was seeing the death stage of my relationship and judging it as bad or wrong and then withdrawing and protecting myself from the “inevitable” end of the relationship. I didn’t know about the next life phase because it had never been modeled to me and I hadn’t experienced it myself. I really didn’t have a clue what deep, true, committed love was so there was naturally a difficulty in me feeling open and connected and loving through tough times.
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